In the fall of his senior year, Nikhil felt like he was constantly running on empty.
He was juggling AP classes, college applications, and extracurriculars, leaving him stressed and anxious.
Despite his impressive background in social entrepreneurship, charity work, and leadership, Nikhil found it hard to focus on his academic responsibilities and college applications.
When Nikhil's family back in Iowa told him about Brandon and the Endgame Academics coaching program, he decided to give it a try.
After an initial consultation, I (Brandon) noticed that what Nikhil needed most was clarity and focus, not just on his college essays, but on managing his senior year with ease.
I recommended something surprisingly simple but incredibly effective: a morning meditation habit.
The Start of a Transformative Practice: Building the Habit
Nikhil was hesitant at first.
But I remembered how I was like that when someone suggested I meditate--over 25 years ago!
Like many busy students, he wasn’t sure he could spare even 10 minutes a day.
But I reminded him of the quote by Thich Nhat Hanh: “Feelings come and go like clouds in a windy sky. Conscious breathing is my anchor.”
This resonated with Nikhil, who was looking for a way to calm his racing thoughts and be more present in his day-to-day life.
I encouraged him to start small:
- Set a Simple Routine: Begin with 5 minutes of quiet breathing each morning. Find a peaceful spot, sit comfortably, and focus on the breath, gently bringing the mind back whenever it wanders.
- Choose an Anchor: I explained to Nikhil the importance of choosing a meditation anchor, whether it be his breath, body sensations, or sounds around him. He chose to focus on his breath, which helped him stay grounded, especially when the demands of senior year felt overwhelming.
- Use a Mantra for Focus: I suggested using the simple word “calm” as his mantra. Each time he felt anxious, he would repeat the word mentally, drawing himself back to the present moment.
Progress and Breakthroughs: From Resistance to Mastery
At first, Nikhil, like many of us, struggled with what Steven Pressfield calls "resistance" in his book The War of Art.
Resistance can take many forms—procrastination, distractions, or the simple urge to skip meditation on busy mornings.
I told my student, "There's an old Samurai saying that says, 'How you do one thing is how you do anything.'"
"What does that mean, and why is that important, Brandon?" he asked.
"Think about it...where don't we see or feel Resistance in our lives, especially in the activities that mean the most to us?"
Nikhil took a moment to ponder and reflect.
"Yeah, I can see that in my tennis training, my work in volunteer projects, and of course all my course work at school."
"Exactly," I nodded. If you stick with meditation, you will see some pretty amazing results in as little as six weeks... Just like I did decades ago!"
"Like what?"
"Well for one thing, you will be able to be able to have the presence and clarity of mind to manage or overcome the Resistance you encounter on a daily basis. And once that starts to happen, you will start finding the moments of Flow that leads to success in your life."
Nikhil decided to give meditation a chance.
And,as Nikhil persisted, he began to notice subtle changes in how he approached his day.
He started waking up earlier, feeling calmer as he prepared for school, and surprisingly, even his focus in class began to improve.
Meditation became his secret weapon to handle senior year pressures, and over time, it became easier. He moved from 5-minute sessions to 10- and 15-minute morning practices, which I encouraged.
As Eckhart Tolle often says, “Realize deeply that the present moment is all you ever have.” This became Nikhil’s mindset as he centered himself each morning.
By staying present, he was able to focus better on his work and manage stress without feeling overwhelmed.
The Ripple Effect: Meditation in Action
With his new habit in place, Nikhil’s mornings transformed into a time of peace and intention.
By calming his mind, he was able to tackle school projects and extracurricular activities with more energy and focus.
But what truly amazed him was the impact on his college application process.
Each morning, before sitting down to work on his essays, Nikhil would meditate for 10 minutes, centering himself, and releasing any anxiety about the outcome.
I helped guide Nikhil through this by using conceptual metaphors of elite sports performance.
I compared his meditation practice to a professional athlete’s warm-up—essential preparation before any major event.
Just like a top athlete wouldn’t start a competition without preparing their body and mind, Nikhil learned not to start his academic or essay-writing tasks without his "mental warm-up" of meditation.
The result?
Well, first he was able to let go of the stress and worry of writing college admissions essay so he can get into his dream universities.
Nikhil began writing his best essays yet, reflecting not just his impressive resume but his values of service, resilience, and growth—values he discovered through guided meditations.
His narrative stood out to college admissions officers, not just because of what he’d accomplished, but because of the clarity and focus with which he presented himself.
And, Nikhil happily reported, he had a stellar season of tennis which he tied to his meditation practice. Meditation made him more concentrated, focused and observant of what he was doing and what was going on in every game. This enable him to react to whatever came at him on the court in more effective and powerful ways.
How Meditation Changed Nikhil's Senior Year
By the end of his senior year, meditation wasn’t just something Nikhil practiced to handle stress—it became a habit that helped him navigate the challenges of life with grace and resilience.
His mornings became a sanctuary, a time for self-reflection and preparation, where he could reconnect with his deeper purpose before starting his day.
He even used meditation to help ease the pressure of college entrance exams and interviews, keeping calm and present, no matter the situation.
Simple Tips for Your Own Meditation Journey
- Start Small: Just 5-10 minutes every morning can make a world of difference.
- Find Your Anchor: Focus on your breath, a mantra, or a calming sound.
- Be Kind to Yourself: If your mind wanders, gently guide it back without judgment.
- Build Consistency: Practice every day, even on weekends. Over time, this habit will become second nature.
Conclusion: From Procrastination to Presence
Nikhil’s senior year wasn’t just about academic success—it became a journey of mindfulness and self-awareness.
Through daily meditation, he found the clarity to focus on what truly mattered.
As Thich Nhat Hanh says, "Breathing in, I calm my body. Breathing out, I smile."
That simple practice made all the difference.
Are you ready to turn your senior year into a time of focused calm and mindful growth?
Meditation can be the cornerstone of your academic success.
Start your journey today with my free 45-minute strategy session—we’ll discuss how you can implement these habits and thrive in the challenges of school and college applications.
Email me at endgameacademics@gmail.com for more details!
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Brandon
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