As we near what could be one of the most important election seasons in American history, it’s crucial to pause and reflect on the state of our nation.
We stand at a crossroads of profound change, facing an uncertain future where, without action, we risk falling into an abyss from which recovery may be impossible.
I believe that educators have to take back, and take seriously, a responsibility to teach reflective thinking skills not only in their classrooms but also in their own lives if we hope to find a way out of the looming abyss.
But let me start from the begining with what I think is at the source of our problems...
American Exceptionalism: A Double-Edged Sword
One belief that has permeated American culture, from both the right and left, is American exceptionalism.
This concept is not exclusive to conservative ideology; even the far-left, with its sharp critique of America’s flaws, participates in a similar narrative.
But what's the difference between believing America is inherently superior and believing it's the most oppressive nation in history?
Both are two sides of the same coin—vanity.
Vanity, in this case, blinds us to our shared reality, further polarizing our society and tearing at the fabric of democracy.
Whether we view America through rose-colored glasses or as uniquely evil, we fail to see the full picture, making it impossible to co-create a future together.
The Dangers of National and Personal Entitlement
The issue of exceptionalism isn't just an American phenomenon—it’s a global one, manifesting itself throughout history in various forms.
From Hitler to Stalin, this entitlement—the belief that one’s nation, culture, or self is inherently superior or victimized—has fueled countless tragedies.
Exceptionalism feeds into what I call the "Narrative of Ego," where national or personal pride blinds us to our collective responsibility.
As Einstein wisely noted, “You cannot solve a problem with the same level of thinking that created it.”
Exceptionalism is merely a self-deceptive lens that prevents us from asking the critical questions needed for self-awareness and genuine improvement.
Whether we believe we are the best or the worst, we fail to see our collective responsibility to improve.
Reflection: The Tool We Ignore at Our Own Peril
Reflection is often hailed as the key to learning and growth, but in practice, it’s more of a party trick—something we pay lip service to when convenient.
Too few of us engage in serious, daily reflection, a necessary habit to evaluate our thoughts, actions, and the collective reality we are building.
But here’s the truth: reflect, act, or die. That’s the critical choice we face as individuals and as a society.
Without reflection, our path leads to polarization, chaos, and self-destruction.
Servant-leadership and superior teaching require more than mere lip service. They depend on a deep commitment to reflective practice.
Today, reflection must be a core principle, not a novelty, if we hope to steer away from disaster.
Education, Servant-Leadership and Collective Responsibility
Reflection and Servant-Leadership are not just the domain of philosophers or monks.
Nor are these skill sets merely for teachers or academics either
—it’s for everyone in the 21st century.
Reflection and servant-leadership are not optional luxuries; they are imperatives for our survival and growth as individuals and as a global society.
We cannot afford to hide behind exceptionalism—whether national pride or self-hatred—and use it as an excuse to avoid honest self-assessment.
As Nietzsche said, “He who has a why to live for can bear almost any how.” The challenge is whether we are ready to find our collective "why" and start the hard work of healing our nation and the world.
Join the Conversation: Your Thoughts Matter!
What role do you think reflection should play in leadership and in the lives of every citizen?
Drop a comment below or send me a message if you’re interested in exploring how reflection and servant-leadership can create real change.
Brandon A. Bufe, MA TESOL
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